I believe it is important to put career first, because you only have one chance to get it right. you can always have kids and build a family in the future-that is, if you are young. there is no need to go and have kids at an early age, sitting around the house waiting for the baby daddy to bring you money. Lets say 65% of young ladies today in the Bahamas don't want a career because they are hungry for vanity; 15% are trying to obtain a career but are under presure from family and friends;5% are rich and have no worries. so, with a career or not, they are ok.The other 15% are being train to Alcoholic,and i blame that on sociaty. the minute these young ladies get out of school they are big-up and hungry. think about it. Everytime you meet one, they want a phone card or something to eat.