I See Why Married Men Fool Around... cont'd

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doocumbayagain

You ever heard a woman say I want to have sex? Most of the times if not all the times they can tell you why they cannot engage in sexual activity. Consider the long list and it is easy to see how this comes about that women dont want to really engage in sexual activity. In fact if you go by a casual list a month can "legitimitely" pass by with little or no act of intamacy.

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Lets consider the list:

I have a head ache

I don't feel like it

the children are awake

the children just went to sleep

the guest in the other room will hear us

the neighbour will hear hear us

my period is on

and this long list: I am cramping, my stomache hurts, I just finished eating, later, not now, I just finished bathing, I just come from the hair dresser, you don't think of anything else, make an appointment, wait til I finish, I feel like I want to use the bath room, you need to get some sleep, I need toget some sleep, my back hurting, it too cold, it too hot, not here, I don't like that music, I don't like your cologne, you bath, I getting ready for work, you going to take too long, you going to cause it to hurt, it lil sore, the guest coming soon, aren't we going out first, wait til we ge home, wait til we get in the bedroom, I want to finish this movie first, I dont feel sexy tonight, my hair isn't fix, the bed isn't fix, I have to get up early, this bed to noisy, this hotel room isn't right, you can't wait, I just come home from work, I have too much on my mind, wake me up later, let me get some sleep first, four o'clock is too early, that thing always hard every four o'clock, my mother in the house, your mother in the house, this isn't our house, I need my own bed, I don't want to be doing that more than once, my knee hurting, just do my nails, you missed it, I called you but you were fixing the car, my eyes hurting, I want to feel fsh for work, You may get that thing on my clothes, lunch time for lunch, after dinner I feel like reading a book, how abut tomorrow, I am pregnant, that will hurt the baby, doing it that way is nasty, I have to ask my mother, I have to ask my doctor, I have to ask my pastor, I ma on a fast, the children going to know what we doing, give you a rain check, maybe afterward, wait one more minute, i dont like the sheet on the bed, man I just don't feel like it , and I am sure you all have you own favorites and the list goes on and on.........

I See Why Married Men Fool Around... (PT 1)

I See Why Married Men Fool Around... cont'd (PT 2)

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leesugar - Why married Men Cheat

Registered | 2008-05-03 12:20:50

Men cheaters cheat with women they have access to. Surprisingly, many male cheaters are not very picky with the women they cheat with, frequently cheating with women that are way below status than their current partner in looks and intelligence. Sometimes men cheat simply because they have the opportunity. Cheating is typically done by three types of men: those with low self esteem, those who are unhappy at home and those who are afraid of commitment and are seeking 'fun love'.

Married men sometimes cheat because they feel that having an affair will prevent them from breaking up their family unit, without hurting their wives because "what they don't know, won't hurt them." That way the man is is able to have the stability of his marriage, along with the excitement of the affair. In other words, he is able to have his cake and eat it too. The problem is that they never address the problems in their marriage, they merely bandage it and eventually the bandage begins to peel away.
Many times after the thrill of the affair has ended, philandering men will need to find a new affair to fulfill their never-ending thirst for the adrenaline rush only an affair can produce. The secrecy, newness and danger of an affair can be highly addictive, just like a drug and it is very difficult to break out of this cyclical process. Some men feel like they have earned the right to have an affair, others rationalize it and still others don't seem to care about the consequences. Whatever the cheating man's reason may be, there are no acceptable ones when the other partner is left in the dark and being deceived.
How convenient it is to blame the other in a relationship for your own actions. People who cheat lack the integrity to face the problems in a relationship and heap upon the other person the hurt involved with the discovery of an affair.
it is a monumental challenge for the cheater to rebuild the trust they've shattered, and they invariably put themselves into a prison of their own making should the offended one even try to go on from there. cheating is all about character or the lack of. Sure the lines of commitment turn gray after some time, but "until death do us part" doesn't mean you have to kill it to get your own way. In my opinion grow up and face your damn problems head on instead of pushing your johnny stick in something else without protection (stupid...could be AIDS instead of a baby). If you want out then get a divorce, but stop saying that your hand was forced to cheat.

Firebrah

Registered | 2008-05-04 11:48:42

Well well well, a topic that is as a great of a topic as any other, If I may start off by saying, getting married is a big move, being in a relationship is almost has big. People make mistakes, infact we are entitle to make mistakes we are not perfect, but da question remeans do we admit we have made a mistake and learn from it, which is key (LEARN).

I find that most adults stop learning how to be a great person above all. It is very easy to point fingers and say he or she is at fault, I can pick something out of each one of the above comments and say this is where your wrong, however I would like to point out this instead.
God created Adam the bible says was the first human being in his own image. God made him from the dust of the ground and breathed life into him, ok moving along, God looked around and saw that there was no suitable helper was found for Adam.

So first and foremost God created a woman for the sole purpose to be a helper to a man.

(Woow das deep, the biblie says "there was no suitable helper" wooow, I know this will truely step on alot of women toes).

So God put Adam to sleep and took one rib from Adam and made a woman from that rib and brought her to Adam, when Adam saw this, he said, "this is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh" if you go back to your bible and read on abit you will read about there relationship and how Eve enticed Adam to sin. My point is over time we have fallen so short of being real to ourselves and others, we have soo much correction that needs to be made within ourselves before we can ever point our fingers at another.

God gave if nothing else the freedom to choose, when you choose a mate that is not right for you, you can blame him, or others "but" am affriad to say it was your choice. Obviously cheating is not right, I dont condone it at all.
However I can understand why one will fall short and make these mistakes, follow me for a few minutes more, If Eve was able to entice Adam to disobey God, keep in mind this is Adams' creator that gave him the garden of Eden and all the animals in the world to rule over. Also keep in mind this was and still is a PERFECT GOD. Now, with that said, Who are "YOU" that man should obey and love you without making mistakes? Are you above God?

(OOOPs there I go stepping on toes again, am just keeping it real)

My suggestion here would be to work on ourselves, continue to learn how to love one another. But before we can do that we need to learn to love ourselves!.

For those of you with a love one with whom are dare to you, think of to what extend you would go to keep them alive, i.e. Mother, Father, Brother, Sister your kids any peron that is really close to you, think about it. Yeah thats love.

Well consider going to that same extend to take care of yourself mentally, spiritually and physically, when you are ready to deny yourself for God and others and take care of yourself then you are ready to take on the responsibilties of a true meaningful relationship.

We can go forward pointing fingers at each other or we can first learn what it means to truly love, ourselves and others.

Then its all uphill from there, treat, respect, honor and love others as you would want them to treat, respect, honor and love you in return, I was always told growing up "if you want 100% you must give 150%. people we have taken our eyes off of the prize.

Well thanks for reading and for giving me the chance to post my feelings, stay well, stay cute and be good and if you cant be good besafe.

FireBrah

leesugar

Registered | 2008-05-07 12:40:14

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Fns	Registered \| 2008-05-09 09:09:02

I wish it was possible for a man to become a woman for 12 months.So he can see whats its like to cook,clean,sex,help the children,all of the above.Its very hard being a woman.So, YES we do get tired.Not saying thats an excuse we can use nightly,because we also have to take care of our man.But Geeeeeeee.Yes you might go to work for 8 hours,but She home working 16 hours,And all U can say is I want SEX.let a man become woman for 12 months, See if he likes to be poked, after doing EVERYTHING all day, evreyday,Experience Crampping, Pregnancy,children needs.HE CANT.So stop ya CRAP

bleedingheart20

Registered | 2008-05-12 08:00:17

So do I. Men don't realize how hard it is to be a woman. having to take care of kids house work chores plus working its hard.

bleedingheart20

Registered | 2008-05-12 07:58:42

Men cheat simply because they feel they have to have it all. They feel that they ain't getting enough at home so they have to find another source. To fill that void that they have inside, when they do find someone else they feel that they have it all, a wife at home to do all the dirty work help with the kids cook clean and so on, and then they have a sweet heart who does all the other means, like take care of their fantasies. Men really chat because they find that the sweet heart is willing to do anything,anywhere,anytime no matter what.

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