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After having been married for almost 19 years, I now can say I see why married men fool around. Of course this is from my perspective and does not take into account those who do not have the same value system. In fact this is the very thing that acts as a catalyst to this entire quandry.  In other words this the thing that gets you in the shit in the first place.  

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From a male view the whole blame for our problem can only be placed squarely on the shoulders  our women, our wives. They dont seem to realize some plain and simple basic things about men.

SEX. whats so hard about that now in another language that would mean six but in English which is the one we speak it means give me give me and eme some more. The greatest emphasis being placed on the more. We would like it twenty four seven and then some. We would like to have it in the morning before we arise from our beds, and before we take a shower, and before we have breakfast, and before lunch, and before dinner, and before going to bed and before we go to sleep. Please dont forget after all the aforementioned. We need this special three letter component in our lives. It helps us to be men. It helps us to relax, exercise and sleep.

In fact as far as we are concerned thats the whole reason that we married you all in the first place. Cooking and cleaning comes after all our sexual needs are taken care of. We just simply cannot function with out and we would be better off starving and dead as long as we get our needs fulfilled. I am sure this is not that diffiult to figure out by now. Say S E X. Not hard to say but it sure seems hard for you to do.

Of course we thought that you would know how to do it. S E X. Same every time..... 

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Fns - WOW Registered | 2008-04-25 07:28:38 Ok, You think the reason why men cheat is because the sex life with wifey isnt enough.Well maybe if you did or tried something else,SHE might want more.Men yall dont realize, we arent a piece of meat.Its more to woman that that.Now days, women work as hard a man.We would like to sex all day& everyday.But what happens.when THE MAN,cant pay all the bills?WOMAN must go out in do her part.My point of saying, We too get tired of being poked,Especially if its the same positions,same time frame.Do something differernt, MAYBE we would want ya stale ass sex. Try coming from work, cooking, cleaning,for her, while she relax.I bet she wont mind sex.everyday all day, women have things to do,by the time sex hour(if U last a hour) comes, women DEAD tired, just want to shower and relax. So how U like that S.E.X. man!!!

BaDDeSt ChIcK - bull shit ok! Registered | 2008-04-26 20:14:08 yal men always tryin ta damn cum up wit sum shitty ass excuse y yal shud cheat! women are not machines you expect us tacome from work keep da house clean, cook keep our ten churin in check an den on top a dat yal wan sex? pssh! ain nutin wrong wit a lil bit here an dere an show yal sum love make yal feel special but yal is take it out way outta line...jus admit it yal are jus pathetic human beings

sweetcone - POOOR EXCUSE! Registered | 2008-04-26 23:44:24 U no wat man just wan be dogs, cause we as women do lots of things for our man to feel happy, just that man dont wan to admite to it. ME BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP made me see wat exactly wat men is about as far as being honest an respectful to us. the lie an cheat for no reason, cause i do wat ever to make my man happy but still get cheated on yes u fine many women r paticular about wat they should do an wat not to, but u know one think wat piss us off is wen the sex is sooooooooo boring an ya'll guys dont know how to work it or even last long enough fa a good fuck we offten refuse to hav sex we as women like to hav an orgasm not just get wet, and u know one thing these other women ya'll does be fucking only want ya'll for da things ya'll may could give them, so i advise all ya'll guys who r married an or in a serious relationship stay wit the one who loves u an has the postive mind to get some were and leave the cheating and da golddiggers behind.

solid leka - HELL NO Registered | 2008-04-28 16:41:49 nah das bull shit wat u talkin rite there!! BC, FNS n SWEETCONE, dun said it all yall ain leave nuttin 4 me 2 say lol! yall men jus like sex das all, any lil ting yall is find to go n cheat. Yall men wan us women, cook, clean, take care the kids n whatever eslse, n still wan sex all day everyday WE AINT ROBOTS! maybe if yall wud do yall part, we wudnt mind so much. yall men need 2 get it together n fly rite!! some a yall rather be with them women who ga take all ya money! NEVER MISS THE WATER TIL THE WELL RUN DRY!!

BaDDeSt ChIcK IP:24.231.35.216 | 2008-05-03 10:22:50 ok njefrgoj

wray - Why Men Cheat. IP:98.203.126.248 | 2008-05-04 11:21:21 Well well well, a topic that is as a great of a topic as any other, If I may start off by saying, getting married is a big move, people make mistakes, infact we are entitle to make mistakes we are not perfect, but da question remeans do they admit they made a mistake and learn from it, which is key (LEARN). I find that most adults stop learning how to be a great person above all. It is very easy to point fingers and say he/she is the fault, I can pick something out of each one of the above comments and say this is where your wrong, however I would like to point out this instead. God created Adam the bible says was the first human being in his own image. God made him from the dust of the ground and breathed life into him, ok well as we go on some more, God looked around and saw that there was no suitable helper was found. (Woow das deep, the biblie says "there was no suitable helper" wooow, I know this will truely step on alot of women toes). So God put Adam to sleep and took one rib from Adam and made a woman from that rib and brought her to Adam, when Adam saw this he said, "this is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh" if you go back to your bible and read on abit you will read about there relationship and how Eve caused Adam to sin. My point is over time we have fallen so short of being real to ourselves and others, we have soo much correction that needs to be made to ourselves before we can ever point our fingers at another. God gave if nothing else the freedom to choose, when you choose a mate that is not right for you, you can blame him or others but am affriad to say "But" that was your choice. Obviously cheating is not right, I dont condone it at all. However I can understand why one will fall short and make these mistakes, follow me for a few minutes more, If Eve was able to entice Adam to disobey God, keep in mind this is Adam's creator that gave him the garden of Eden and all the animals in the world to rule over. Also keep in mind this was and still is a PERFECT GOD. Now, with that said, Who are "YOU" that man should obey and love you without making mistakes? Are you above God? "OOOPs there I go stepping on toes again" Am just keeping it real, therefore my suggestion here would be to work on ourselves, continue to learn how to love one another. But before we can do that we need to learn to love ourselves, for those of you with a love one with whom are dare to you, think of to what extend you would go to keep them alive, thats love. Well consider going to that same extend to take care of yourself mentally, spiritually and physically, when you are ready to deny yourself and take care of yourself then you are ready to take on the responsibilties of a true meaningful relationship. We can go forward pointing fingers at each other or we can first learn what it means to truly love, ourselves and others then its all uphill from there, treat, respect, honor and love others as you want them to give you in return, I was always told growing up "if you want 100% you must give 150%. people we have taken Our eyes off of the prize. Well thanks for reading andfor giving me the chance to post my feelings, stay well, stay cute and be good and if you cant be good besafe. FireBrah

brownskincutie - hypocrites man Registered | 2008-08-16 19:21:06 na see....everyone know man aint as educated as us women, we gatta always be the ones to tell yall how to act, talk, sing, walk, feel, breathe and think, how to sex, wat position feel good....and yet dat still dont be enough for yall old shitty dumb ass.....i mean woman is bend their backs over for the man she find deep interest in, and yet the man and his deep ass still one have a lil raggedy ass golddigger on da side....den wen yall get AIDS lookin to bring dat home to us faithful,innocent women who would never do NOthing to hurt you'll stupid ass.....i mean us women love yall man i ein ga lie, we need a lil dick to ride every now and again we need the orgasms to release dat stress from work.....but yall need to grow up and learn dat bachelors always broke cuz of golddiggers and aint ga get no where in life livin dat way...SO WEN YALL WANT AN EXCUSE TO CHEAT, JUST TELL US IT EIN WORKING OUT NO MORE SO WE CUD FIND A MAN WHO READY FOR A REAL INDEPENDENT WOMAN DATS MY 5 CENTS

Lorenzo Nicca - lol Registered | 2008-09-23 18:01:47 so y do wife's cheat *awaits the excuses*

the diva - why do wives cheat response Registered | 2010-02-18 16:59:42 some wives cheat because there spouse is too busy with the guys,the other woman,or there mothers.cheating does not just happen,it is a thought out thing,no real love at home ,example;I COOK AND ALL U DO IS EAT ,NOT EVEN A THANK YOU HONEY,i suck you off and you just say do it longer ,not even a oh baby i love when you do that.i sex you for two whole hours and u dont even want to cuddle after wards,straight in front of the tv.sex with you might be boring,i pretend to have an orgasm just to please you,can't wait for u to go top work so that i can do the job my self.women cause just like men we looovvveee sex ,we want to cum, we need a man that can make us scream and see heaven too.we want attention,i love you,you so sexy,thank God for the day he gave me you ,those are some of the things that could make your woman keep that thing home Lorenzo

loverkk - LMAO Registered | 2008-09-27 10:21:28 wow ery1 gon quiet

PaqTeq - Cheating Registered | 2008-11-30 22:13:29 Hi guys. I have heard from some men that they cheat because their wives deprive them of sex; or is boring in bed; or they no longer find her attractive; etc. I can't condone the cheating but i can feel where they are coming from. If u dont get ur needs met at home u will get it elsewhere. But what about those men that have a sexpot at home; or a woman that jes as freaky as them and they still cheat? Many men are just womanizers - they act on their urges instead of controlling them. Now for the women cheaters - Despite this being the new millenium, women are still expected to handle all the household chores and child-rearing; even though she also goes out there and works as well. (I have had a guy tell me that because his job is more physical than mine that he works harder and all i do is sit around all day.) So in his mind and in the minds of a lot of other guys, they still expect to find a home-cooked meal, well-behaved children, clean house and an immaculate (non-ambitious) wife dressed in saran wrap (or insert w/e fantasy u want) when they come home: Thats - WHEN they decide to come home: WHEN they decide to leave da boys and da beers. Now when some men do get home, they dont give their wife wat they need - affection, quality time, appreciation, consideration, communication. Men talk about sex alot but u hardly ever hear them talk about makin love to their partner. Fellas, how about some foreplay, makin out, gettin her off before u get off. How about givin her the little things that get her in the mood. Romance, consideration, listening. Maybe if you u help in da kitchen, bathe da kids, get them ready for bed, wash da dishes, fix that thing u been promisin to fix; maybe then she will want to rip ur clothes off n have her way with u. Now wen a woman feels she does all she can in her relationship and is not getting her needs met, she may fall into the arms of that guy that shows her some attention, that listens to her and treats her like a queen. Then u have those girls that are just materialistic and greedy. The thing we have to remember is that it's damn near impossible to get everything we need and want from a person. So we have to find that person that can give us whats most important and be resolved to live without the rest! Phew...imma shutup now.

mace Registered | 2009-02-09 17:02:13 coming from a man myself....i don`t agree with the reasoning behind "why men cheat", especially the "not enough sex" part. that`s sorta ridiculous to me, being a married man. if anything, my wife is the aggressor when it comes to sex, and i have no problem with that. i love a woman wanting to juice me up. to be real, men cheat because of one simple fact...." because they can". as long as the opportunity presents itself to a man that leaves himself open to that kinda stuff, he`ll cheat. as long as a man holds onto the desire of flaunting,lusting.....he`s gonna cheat when opportunity presents itself. i`ve cheated many times.....to be honest, and it wasn`t because i wasn`t gett`n it. at first, in a way it was because we sorta disliked each other for a bit...that was the first time i cheated. after we got over that, and things got better....i still found myself cheating, no matter how many time i said i was gonna stop. so, not having enough sex? that`s rubbish! we cheat because we can, and because we love pussy....simple as that.

doocumbayagain - I See Why Married Men Cheat Registered | 2009-08-31 17:05:35 I am surprise to see that the you are some of the few who have come close to why (married) men cheat. This was supposed to be a means to test market a book title but I was shocked to see that many people are suffering so much that they cant see pass the titel and get to the bottom line. So I guess you are ready for the next entry... coming soon

mace Registered | 2009-02-09 17:00:16 i agree with you on some of those points paq teq. i must admit, i`m not much at cleaning, but i do when i can or it`s needed. only thing i won`t do is clean the bathroom. i bathe my son, feed him, dress him for school....all of that. i romance my wife when i can, foreplay and all.......but i still cheat. i guess i may be considered a womanizer for real.....sometimes i think i am, but believe me, it`s truly hard for some guys to accept being with one woman, even after gett`n married.

JJSherman - A Cheater Is A Closet Looser Registered | 2009-04-28 19:21:36 A cheater is a closet looser, not secure in his or her skin. Nothing should make a mature loving adult cheat. Especially in these day's with all the sickness out here. Communication is the key to all relationship, allow your self the dignity to be first honest with God, and then yourself, and in doing so he will give you the answers that you need. Life is to short for childish games, when you was a child you act like a child and spoke like a child, and now you become a man/woman you bring all your childish games into each other's lives. Like I say to people when they ask me how come I am without a man in my life, I simply tell them I don't need no one to help me do bad I can do bad all by myself. My handsome son told me many years ago, "Mom it takes a real man to have you" I spoke to him today, and he told me learning from you Mom has made me the man that I am first in my personal relationship with God, secure in who I am as a man, and he thanked me, yes my Bahamian son.

JJSherman - You Insecure Men See What Is H Registered | 2009-12-18 01:14:24 Yes men are very dumb, most of them, they think with their brainless head, and that is what Tiger was thinking with, now his wife is leaving him and taking his kids, and most of the companies who have endorsed him is letting him go, just for some crabbie, I tell my son's that crabbie is sweet, and it is good, but it is a whole lot of trouble, and that is what got us in trouble with God, Eve with her crabbie, and Adam who couldn't say no. Be a man, and if you cannot be a man ask God to show you how to be a man, and stop putting down women, for it is women who give you birth, and women who is left feeding you when your no good Fathers walk away. That should make you become a better man. I thought that Aids would slow you men down, but no it is not what else is there going to be before you stop creeping. As you know when you eat crab it is so sweet, but when you bite into the gill of the crab it can be so bitter. And that is what has happen to the Tiger, women have but one hole and they don't need a hard on to come remember that you so call cheating men.

ladyokee Registered | 2009-12-22 15:17:41 People do things cause they want to do it. So cheating is no exception. Men and women cheat because they want to. If men didnt want to cheat or women they would make a effort to fight for thier mirrage and make it work. Sex is something you can work at. learn a few moves here and there and then spice it up. but the will to stay is another story you have to want that shit......

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