After having been married for almost 19 years, I now can say I see why married men fool around. Of course this is from my perspective and does not take into account those who do not have the same value system. In fact this is the very thing that acts as a catalyst to this entire quandry.  In other words this the thing that gets you in the shit in the first place.  

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From a male view the whole blame for our problem can only be placed squarely on the shoulders  our women, our wives. They dont seem to realize some plain and simple basic things about men.

SEX. whats so hard about that now in another language that would mean six but in English which is the one we speak it means give me give me and eme some more. The greatest emphasis being placed on the more. We would like it twenty four seven and then some. We would like to have it in the morning before we arise from our beds, and before we take a shower, and before we have breakfast, and before lunch, and before dinner, and before going to bed and before we go to sleep. Please dont forget after all the aforementioned. We need this special three letter component in our lives. It helps us to be men. It helps us to relax, exercise and sleep.

In fact as far as we are concerned thats the whole reason that we married you all in the first place. Cooking and cleaning comes after all our sexual needs are taken care of. We just simply cannot function with out and we would be better off starving and dead as long as we get our needs fulfilled. I am sure this is not that diffiult to figure out by now. Say S E X. Not hard to say but it sure seems hard for you to do.

Of course we thought that you would know how to do it. S E X. Same every time..... 

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Fns - WOW Registered | 2008-04-25 07:28:38 Ok, You think the reason why men cheat is because the sex life with wifey isnt enough.Well maybe if you did or tried something else,SHE might want more.Men yall dont realize, we arent a piece of meat.Its more to woman that that.Now days, women work as hard a man.We would like to sex all day& everyday.But what happens.when THE MAN,cant pay all the bills?WOMAN must go out in do her part.My point of saying, We too get tired of being poked,Especially if its the same positions,same time frame.Do something differernt, MAYBE we would want ya stale ass sex. Try coming from work, cooking, cleaning,for her, while she relax.I bet she wont mind sex.everyday all day, women have things to do,by the time sex hour(if U last a hour) comes, women DEAD tired, just want to shower and relax. So how U like that S.E.X. man!!!

BaDDeSt ChIcK - bull shit ok! Registered | 2008-04-26 20:14:08 yal men always tryin ta damn cum up wit sum shitty ass excuse y yal shud cheat! women are not machines you expect us tacome from work keep da house clean, cook keep our ten churin in check an den on top a dat yal wan sex? pssh! ain nutin wrong wit a lil bit here an dere an show yal sum love make yal feel special but yal is take it out way outta line...jus admit it yal are jus pathetic human beings

sweetcone - POOOR EXCUSE! Registered | 2008-04-26 23:44:24 U no wat man just wan be dogs, cause we as women do lots of things for our man to feel happy, just that man dont wan to admite to it. ME BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP made me see wat exactly wat men is about as far as being honest an respectful to us. the lie an cheat for no reason, cause i do wat ever to make my man happy but still get cheated on yes u fine many women r paticular about wat they should do an wat not to, but u know one think wat piss us off is wen the sex is sooooooooo boring an ya'll guys dont know how to work it or even last long enough fa a good fuck we offten refuse to hav sex we as women like to hav an orgasm not just get wet, and u know one thing these other women ya'll does be fucking only want ya'll for da things ya'll may could give them, so i advise all ya'll guys who r married an or in a serious relationship stay wit the one who loves u an has the postive mind to get some were and leave the cheating and da golddiggers behind.

solid leka - HELL NO Registered | 2008-04-28 16:41:49 nah das bull shit wat u talkin rite there!! BC, FNS n SWEETCONE, dun said it all yall ain leave nuttin 4 me 2 say lol! yall men jus like sex das all, any lil ting yall is find to go n cheat. Yall men wan us women, cook, clean, take care the kids n whatever eslse, n still wan sex all day everyday WE AINT ROBOTS! maybe if yall wud do yall part, we wudnt mind so much. yall men need 2 get it together n fly rite!! some a yall rather be with them women who ga take all ya money! NEVER MISS THE WATER TIL THE WELL RUN DRY!!

BaDDeSt ChIcK IP:24.231.35.216 | 2008-05-03 10:22:50 ok njefrgoj

wray - Why Men Cheat. IP:98.203.126.248 | 2008-05-04 11:21:21 Well well well, a topic that is as a great of a topic as any other, If I may start off by saying, getting married is a big move, people make mistakes, infact we are entitle to make mistakes we are not perfect, but da question remeans do they admit they made a mistake and learn from it, which is key (LEARN). I find that most adults stop learning how to be a great person above all. It is very easy to point fingers and say he/she is the fault, I can pick something out of each one of the above comments and say this is where your wrong, however I would like to point out this instead. God created Adam the bible says was the first human being in his own image. God made him from the dust of the ground and breathed life into him, ok well as we go on some more, God looked around and saw that there was no suitable helper was found. (Woow das deep, the biblie says "there was no suitable helper" wooow, I know this will truely step on alot of women toes). So God put Adam to sleep and took one rib from Adam and made a woman from that rib and brought her to Adam, when Adam saw this he said, "this is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh" if you go back to your bible and read on abit you will read about there relationship and how Eve caused Adam to sin. My point is over time we have fallen so short of being real to ourselves and others, we have soo much correction that needs to be made to ourselves before we can ever point our fingers at another. God gave if nothing else the freedom to choose, when you choose a mate that is not right for you, you can blame him or others but am affriad to say "But" that was your choice. Obviously cheating is not right, I dont condone it at all. However I can understand why one will fall short and make these mistakes, follow me for a few minutes more, If Eve was able to entice Adam to disobey God, keep in mind this is Adam's creator that gave him the garden of Eden and all the animals in the world to rule over. Also keep in mind this was and still is a PERFECT GOD. Now, with that said, Who are "YOU" that man should obey and love you without making mistakes? Are you above God? "OOOPs there I go stepping on toes again" Am just keeping it real, therefore my suggestion here would be to work on ourselves, continue to learn how to love one another. But before we can do that we need to learn to love ourselves, for those of you with a love one with whom are dare to you, think of to what extend you would go to keep them alive, thats love. Well consider going to that same extend to take care of yourself mentally, spiritually and physically, when you are ready to deny yourself and take care of yourself then you are ready to take on the responsibilties of a true meaningful relationship. We can go forward pointing fingers at each other or we can first learn what it means to truly love, ourselves and others then its all uphill from there, treat, respect, honor and love others as you want them to give you in return, I was always told growing up "if you want 100% you must give 150%. people we have taken Our eyes off of the prize. Well thanks for reading andfor giving me the chance to post my feelings, stay well, stay cute and be good and if you cant be good besafe. FireBrah

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