Sunny
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NEW POLL - 2008/05/17 07:19
Well...it certainly is NO surprise that there is a new "Poll" posted...the only surprise is it took that long to come up with another "Poll" that singles me out...although this time I have company!! WHY, Mr. Admin is it that you only asked if the posts by Sunny and LeeSugar were "insulting" or "helpful"?....WHY don't you ask if the posts by Ocean 13, FNS, Princess242, Garf, etc. were "insulting" or " helpful"? HMMMMMM. Sure seems like my observations that it's the people that say things against the flow and speak up about the way members are given free reign to ignore log in instructions and are permitted to engage in Gay Chat freely and are permitted to torture certain members with relentless attacks on a regular basis are singled out. I sure read plenty of insulting statements by other members in the posts and have all along. Yet, I never see a "Poll" as to whether or not members found those posts to "helpful" or "insulting".
Clearly, this is yet another act of prejudice and judgment of members that speak up against the "norm". Yet, this is a "forum" where we are encouraged to share our thoughts....odd. Although there are MANY other members that agree with my assessments, because they do not take the time and put them in writing on the forum...they are ignored as well.
When I brought the negative, disruptive and annoying behavior of "My Big Toe" and "Chit Chat Celeb Crook" to Admin's attention and suggested that they be given a "time out" so-to-speak asking them to consider how they carry on in the Chat...I was told "no action can be taken on my only being notified by one person". Yet, Admin's are free to "ban" whomever they feel they are justified in doing so while in the Chat. There are no parameters for seeking a "head count" of members that agree that someone should be "banned out"...they can "ban" at will. Perhaps the response was based on the fact that it was ME that brought the issue to your attention.
When there are posts by Ella going off about Admin, "banning" and policies and she shouts out members names....her posts do not generate a "Poll". When I was told off by FNS and told to "roll in rocks" and that I was a "snitch"....I didn't see a "Poll" asking "was the post by FNS "helpful" or "insulting". Clearly, the fact that I and LeeSugar have been "on the cross" for writing how we feel, which the site (supposedly) encourages members to do - IN WRITING ON THE HOME PAGE - is nothing short of deliberate retaliation. Do ya thing - enjoy yaself....no biggie ....but, don't expect me to not respond.
Catching on here people? Yep, I think anyone would. I find it quite entertaining that I keep reading everywhere on this site and in the Chat...."CAN'T WE ALL JUST GET ALONG?" I didn't insult anyone, call anyone's real names, threaten anyone....I spoke my mind...just like I'm told all the other members are entitled to do regardless of the lack of tact and foul language.
With all that's going on in our lives and our locations...taking a "Poll" as to whether the posts of 2 individuals is what you feel is necessary? While I'm on the subject...why weren't the results of the "Who started the fight in the chat" "Poll" ever posted?
Keep isolating and pointing me out as the "trouble maker"...all that does is empower me and confirm that everything I say and write IS appropriate.
Mr. Admin - you are not a Chat Administrator, you are a Chat Dictator. If you're NOT Gay or BiSexual...you're gonna have a problem on this site....I think that needs to get added to the home page. Not that I have a problem with homosexuality...I live in an area that has a significantly high population of Homosexuals. I just feel strongly that since this Chat is NOT identified as a Gay Chat Room and the log in instructions CLEARY state to keep Gay chat in private....the Heterosexual members should NOT have to be subjected to the constant battling and slamming insults between those that ARE Homosexual and those that ARE Heterosexual. That IS A FACT and the site allows it to go on!! I really feel there should be an indication that this is a HUGE part of the Chat...which will NEVER happen, but guess what....don't retaliate against those that point out the obvious.
I once received several communications from Admin that he wants to encourage "change" in the Chat and have foreignors and people of a higher "caliber" visit the site....yet, he does nothing to support that. Bring on the attacks fellow Chat members...I'm ready!!
This IS a Circus Show and before anyone says I'm "too thin skinned", "take it all to serious" and "need to get a life"...read, really read what I just wrote and then try to tell me I'm wrong.
Have a nice weekend my friends and same goes to the "Haters"....
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