Chat - BahamiansOnline

by: Matrix

I find it depressing to have to accept that we Bahamian men can no longer find real Bahamian women who will have our back and not dog us out by scheming. The reality is though we may have to accept this. Before I do however, I’d like to ask where are we men to look for a good Bahamian woman?????? Can any woman out there answer that? It use to be the church …( suck teeth, big joke).

One thing I see though, society is finally seeing the truth that women are a big blame. I recently saw a documentary on National Geographic’s channel on human sexuality. The documentary stated that the belief that women are typically less promiscuous is logically incorrect, if they were less promiscuous, then who would the men cheat with??????

Personally I don’t see why  these mothers, sisters and aunts don’t relies the boys in their families are watching them and if these women who are their role models are doing this then those boys will think the man’s role is to do it back, and that all women are schemers. What I don’t understand though is if there is a man shortage why are woman cheating???? Shouldn’t they work harder to keep that man by treating men much better and encourage us to be good?

Further more what is good because when I look in the “good book” I see men who are called saints cheating and scheming worst than some today. Take David for example, now I pick him because he was called a man of God’s own heart. This dude bone his general’s wife big her up then try make it look like the general big her. When that didn’t work he sent the general to the heaviest part of the war to make sure he get kill. ( WTH ). That’s only one, I could go on and on about the “good men”, but my question is why these woman expect us to be 1000% perfect today????? They want you to have a money tree, have a good job / work hard but still be home with them, buy them all kind of expensive jewelry, buy them a car, pay ALL their bills, don’t have sex with them / be sexually unsatisfied and still stay loyal, don’t ask them to cook / buy takeout every night, after all of that still find money to build them a house, then when all ya pay check gone, they asking other niggas ta buy them lunch.

All a man want from a woman is; sex him feed him and deal with only him. Ladies is that too much to ask for???????  The alternative is the “independent woman” I don’t want none of them because Independent to a woman means she has the right to scheme. I enn fa dat. Bey it look like monogamy in the Bahamas is an endangered species on the verge of extinction, just like the idea of finding a good Bahamian woman.